Thoughts In My Bubble Today!!!

I was tagged by Bharathi in August...Completing it now :).. Hope you enjoy !!!!

8 FAVOURITE PLACES TO EAT :

• Under the tree.
  

• On the couch.

• Free treat any day wateva the venue :P.

• Pizza Hut.... I love Italian!!!
  

• McDonald's (If I am out of money... quite common :P).

• Love street food.
  

• Malls n Food Joints.

• Actually I can eat even on road or while walking or running or even fighting if I am hungry :P.

• Gilmore Girls - I have seen all the seven seasons like 100 times .... n can watch more n more n more :).

• F.R.I.E.N.D.S.

• How I Met Your Mother : Click here to know more.

• Seinfeld.

• Yo Mama on Vh1.

• Weird T.V. shows of MTV.

• Used to watch KBC a lot n Bournvita Quiz Contest is my all time favourite.

• All weird debate n discussions on weird news channels :P.
  

• A Time Machine.

• Formula of Invisibility.

• A machine that can cure all the diseases in just few minutes.

• A gadget that can read other's thoughts and mind.

• A vacuum cleaner that can clean all the roads in one day.

• A real Nimbus 2000 (All Harry Potter fans will understand this).

• A real guy like Edward Cullen (I know it is not possible :( ... Who cares half of my list is crap).

• A medicine that can give wings and the ability to fly like birds.

• Oh I have a long list ... 8 is too less for that ... leme start anyways ...

• I have this list called THINGS TO DO BEFORE I DIE. I am looking forward to fulfil that list like crazy.

• I wish to go abroad for my Masters ... Planning and studying hard too... Hope it comes true... Really looking forward to that.

• Mommy's birthday is on Sept 13th ... I have few plans for her ... Waiting for the day like crazy.

• Looking forward to see some snowfall in Delhi some day soon (I know it's impossible ... but I can always look forward to it).

• Want to visit all the seven continents... Hopefully!!! Looking forward to the dream :).

• I have always wanted to live like a Gypsy for at least one year... Looking forward to that one year.

• I have always wanted to float like Uncle Scrooge in money... Not necessarily my money though, I do not want that much money. Looking forward for that one day (see the cartoon to understand this).
  

• The Coziness, The Feel, The Weather, The Smell, My Favourite Black Jacket, Lots of Tea n Lots of Coffee, Food, Travel, Warmth, Holding Hands ... The magic of winter just drives me crazy ... I want winters for all 12 months, Everyday, Every hour, Every Moment.... Foreverrrrrr...
  

• Wateva n lol : Though...I try my level best to avoid the words.

• Hell Man or Like Hell !!!
  

• Fish : It's a substitute for the fuck word.

• Samurai Revenge !!! : It means similar kinda funny revenge in a funny manner.
  

• Who Cares : I use these words when I really care :P.

• So Vella :P.

• Holly shit!!!

• Ya ya I know all that jazz : Learned this from a friend ... Using it a lot these days.
  

Friends call him a live cricket encyclopedia. And why not, Shimu is a die hard cricket fan. Today is the day he was waiting for a long time. India v/s Australia final. After witnessing India’s bowling performance in the first half, Shimu was quite sure India will be lifting up the cup. While watching the Indian batting in the middle overs, he left his seat to grab a cuppa of coffee. When he returned back, to his dismay, he noticed India lost a key wicket. “Look at those crazy fellows, one good chance they have got to beat Aussies and they are fucking it up.” He said angrily to himself. This sequence continued a couple of times. Every time he left his seat, India lost a wicket. He got desperate and fear of losing started grappling his mind. He decided not to leave his seat until the match gets over. With more ups and downs, however without losing any wicket, India won the game. Shimu was probably the happiest man in the world; however, he became a victim of one of the most incomprehensible phenomenon of the world. Any idea what am I talking about here ? Well this phenomenon is called Superstition, which has gripped millions of people around the world centuries after centuries and has force them to believe in something which can never be explained using normal equations of cause and effect.

Most of the superstitions are usually harmless. Wearing your lucky shirt, lucky tie on your interview, writing an exam with a lucky pen. So what exactly is the problem with being superstitious? Superstition is so powerful that it leads you to attribute your successes to something outside yourself. This essentially means that you are held back from unleashing your own inner strengths and abilities. Loss of confidence. First problem!!! Even if something negative happens one is not going to attribute the failure of the outcome to the superstition. The person will start blaming other factors and not the superstition. One never kills his superstition and because of this the pile of superstitions keeps on increasing and then we graciously pass the baggage to our children who follow these superstitions blindly. Second problem !!!

Well, these little rituals of magic are so much part of our culture that we do not question these, forget questioning, we don't even notice these Don’t let superstition rule your mind and wreck your life. Instead, try hard, reaaaal hard, to overcome your fears by inspiring confidence in yourself, inspiring authority in your decisions, inspiring trust in your actions. You will then realize and enjoy the person who is truly you and not someone like Shimu.

Sometimes...I wonder what people mean when they say they are single and lonely. I have always believed, being lonely and being alone are two different statements altogether. Though being alone is momentary, loneliness gives you a feeling of solitude for life.

In one of the stories of Times of India, I have read about a man who sits in his rocking chair nursing a scotch every evening when the dusk sets in, listening to an old Mohd. Rafi's song ...Dekhi zamaane ki yaari, bichde sabhi baari baari...in his calm surrounding with a sense of peace and a day well spent. No broken hearts here, but a man unwinding after a day at work. His book lying next to his pillow, the way he left it last night and a collection of around 2500 DVDs to choose from.

On the other hand a single women is a busy professional, juggling career and home, handling her life and loving it the way it is, with the guarantee that there's no place in her life for any other man.

Both the stories make me wonder if the characters are lonely or alone. Is it necessary to plan our whole life with one person or it's just a social responsibility? Can we lead a peaceful and satisfying life all alone just being ourselves and doing things we want to do once we set our mind to it? A time when we stop wandering and settle down just for ourselves or our dreams wrapped in a secure life and comfortable around ourselves. Would that be a selfish or self-centred existence or a freedom to liberty. Living our life to the fullest and wish to make each and every dream come true, and the best of our existence.

I remember how I reacted after reading a statement (There's nothing called ideal match) on a fellow blogger's blog today. I got offended and told him I did not like the statement, but now I wonder only if he was all wrong. A feeling of single hood not only gives you a sense of freedom but also a peaceful and fulfilled life. Movies, books, music, arts, hobbies, travelling, social work, friends and lots of dreams ~ life has hell lot of variety it seems that might limit itself because of many adjustments and sacrifices done in a relationship.

Is it really necessary to have a partner or companion for life or the emptiness can be filled with a large number of friends and variety of things that leaves no space for one's other half. A single person is free to pick and choose as many individuals as friends or to connect with the whole human species with no boundaries to set in. Sometimes people you share some magical moments with become the most cherished memory of your life, much more important than the one you spent your whole life with.

Just because someone is alone does not mean he is lonely and with so many things to explore in this beautiful life there's no chance to get bored. Rather we can devote our life in helping those in need, those who has nothing. Isn't someone who care and love people but not bound to any one person is much better than the one with a companion but not satisfied and happy with his life?

P.S. - Kinda bold statement huh ... :P

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It's a weird weird life. when you expect so much, it gives you a little and when you sit down with zero hope, it provides more than you have wished for. Though I am just 21 yrs and not old enough to explain what to expect from this unexpected life. But there are few things I have learned that I would love to share

• Lord Buddha said, 'We achieve peace through meditation' yet I have learned, the most beautiful and peace giving thing in the world is to watch a little child asleep.

• Share everything you want to in life with friends and with people you care for but never trust someone who says, ' trust me I can keep this secret'.

• No matter how rich we become, we can never buy what really matters in life.

• Sometimes crying is best response (esp in front of men :P).

• There will always be someone in your life who annoys you no matter where you are and you will love it eventually and miss him when he is not there.
  

• Mostly it's better to shut up but sometimes it's necessary to argue.

• Believe me on this one - but it's not worth a calorie until n unless it is a CHOCOLATe :).

• Though many people believe that you are what you wear or what your shoes tells about you but I have learned- Do not judge a person according to his appearance.

• Well I am always in trouble because of honesty but I still believe honesty can solve any problem.

• May be we should never let go of our deepest desire. But I have learned- letting go is the only way to keep something or someone in life.

• It's good to be yourself and maintain your dignity. But I have learned - The word 'WE' always sounds better than the word 'I'.

• We will always come across many intolerable people but there's still a difference between being angry and being cruel.

• One thing I wish I have learned when I was 8 yrs is that - I wish I could have told my dad that I love him more time, before he passed away.
  

• Never be close friends with your best friend's boyfriend. Her boyfriend might start liking you and that can create problems in relationships (examples better hidden :P).

• And finally - I am sure you all will agree on this one - Just do not expect your money back if you have lend it to a close friend... Friends will be friends :) lols :P

I am tagged again by Shankar...n... Since my name also starts with 'S' and Shankar wrote all the interesting answers n even after my request Shankar did not allow me to cheat ...It's going to be difficult huh...

Tag Rules: It’s harder than it looks!(Mind It). Copy to your own note, erase my answers, enter yours, and tag your friends. Use the first letter of your name to answer each of the following questions. They have to be real… nothing made up! If the person before you had the same first initial, you must use different answers. You cannot use any word twice and you can’t use your name for the boy/girl name question. Have Fun!!

1. What is your name: Suga.

2. A four Letter Word: Sexy.. lols:P

3. A boy’s Name: Subramanyamyannaillepille.

4. A girl’s Name: Shobajoytianna.

5. An occupation: Sugarcane Collector(:P).

6. A colour: Sea Green.

7. Something you wear: Smile.

8. A food: Spaghetti noodles.

9. Something found in the bathroom: Salt (I am talking about my bathroom here :P).

10. A place: Sky.

11. A reason for being late: Sleeping (now that's a truth).

12. Something you shout: Sucks man!!!

13. A movie title: Serendipity.

14. Something you drink: Shake (yummm).

15. A musical group: Snoozers ( aww now this is made up... did I break the rule :P).

16. An animal: Spinosaurus.

17. A Street name: Silent Street.

18. A type of car: Stanguellini ( Red) Front Angle model ( Cute n Pretty).

19. A song title: Sand In Your Shoes by Al Stewart.

20. A verb: Shiver.

I am tagging: A blog named Obsessions.

• Rakhi Sawant on NDTV Imagine :D
  

A father passing by his daughter's bedroom was astonished to see the bed was nicely made and everything was neat & tidy. He suddenly saw an envelope propped up on the center of the pillow. It was addressed "Dad"
with the worst premonition, he opened the envelope and read the letter:

Dear Dad,