Gender Bender : You and I!!!

July 20, 2009

Men are simple beings, they can survive a whole weekend with only three things:beer, boxer shorts and batteries for the remote control... (Diana Jordan)

At the age of eleven women acquire a poise and an ability to handle difficult situation which a man, if he is lucky, manages to achieve somewhere in the late seventies...(P.G. Wodehouse)

These are just few quotations written by the great scholars. But as it is said: Gender issues started with the first creation of God - Adam n Eve. And the whole problem occurred because of a silly fruit. Poor Eve, I am sure she didn't even know that she will be blamed for all the generations just because of an APPLE!!! And then Adam, completely devoted to Eve committed the same mistake again.

Whether it is the famous story of Adam n Eve or Gen Y, men and women are considered as two completely different creatures trying to cope up with each other. You can not live with them and you can not live without them, they say! The most frequently expressed complaint women have is - Men do not listen!!! And the only thing men complain about is - Women talk a lot!!!

From choices to interests and thoughts, the only word that comes in mind is- DIFFERENT!!! We have always imagined the kind of person we would love to be with. But is it possible or rather necessary to have someone with same thoughts and interests? Rather most of the time we end up breaking a relationship with someone we have always wanted and then search for articles or read books in order to understand opposite sex.

We change ourselves according to them, we do what they like, wear they want. Girls change the way they look or behave so that their boy will love them and boys try all the tricks in the universe to impress the girl of their dream and then the basic reason of break up is- You have changed!!

We do not realise that the other person chose us over everybody else! No theories or research is needed to fall in love or to make others fall in love with you. As Ashley Judd said in the movie Someone Like You : "We are not animals so no cow theory works here, but, sometimes you open the barn door, or the bedroom door, or the hospital door, and you find the real thing. 

You find someone who can sit with you when you are at your absolute worst, when your face looks like a punching bag and he can still looks at you and tells you "You are the most beautiful person I have ever seen!" And you suddenly realise that's the one you have always wanted, not the one in the Fairy Tales!!!

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